Complete Guide To Dirty Talking
Want to hear your man growl with pleasure? Have him stare at you with a fiery lust? Experience erotic, electrifying sex like never before? Just one secret – talking dirty!
I’m going to teach you EXACTLY how to talk dirty to drive your man insane with desire and take your sex life from just “okay” to “red hot.”
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This guide will unlock your inner sex goddess and give you the keys to crazy passionate sex! Let’s sizzle…
Chapter 1: Why Dirty Talk Is So Powerfully Effective
Before jumping to naughty phrases, I want to start by explaining exactly WHY talking dirty is such a potent and effective tool for hotter sex.
There are 3 main reasons:
1) Builds Strong Sexual Tension
The best thing about dirty talk is that it makes you and your partner feel hot and horny. That tense feeling is what gives your private moments their electric energy and chemistry.
Without sexual tension, sex can feel mundane or robotic like you’re just “going through the motions.” Talking dirty amps up the desire and excitement for steamy satisfaction later.
Those naughty words linger in both your minds, building the horniness until you tear each other’s clothes off!
2) Makes Sex Intenser & Hotter
Hearing those tantalizing lines naturally makes the sex way hotter when it happens!
Explicit, descriptive dirty talk acts like verbal foreplay increasing your arousal. It activates your imagination picturing all those dirty deeds. This translates to hornier sex when the time comes.
Even during the act itself, some well-timed naughty narration makes the experience way spicier and more sizzling.
3) Keeps Him Thinking About You
This benefit especially helps if your goal is keeping your man hooked, obsessed and begging for more!
When you whisper those dirty phrases in his ear, you KNOW he’ll keep replaying your naughty words long after.
Those tantalizing lines will be etched in his mind, getting him excited to see you again. You become linked to passion and pleasure in his head – fantastic!
And in long distance relationships, dirty messaging is an awesome way to stay connected when you’re apart.
Now that you know WHY talking dirty is so damn effective, let’s get into the specifics…
Chapter 2: Ground Rules for Dirty Talk Success
I want to start with 3 essential ground rules. Follow these guidelines, and you’ll be talking dirty with ease and confidence in no time!
1) Start Tamer
It is NOT wise to suddenly bust out your inner porn star if you’ve been quiet and reserved for years!
When you start to talk dirty, you need to do it slowly so you don’t shock or bother your man. I think you should start with more sensual and romantic dirty lines. As he replies positively, get louder and louder over time.
2) Pay Attention to His Reaction
It’s crucial to pay close attention to your man’s reaction as you talk dirty. You need to ensure he is turned on and into it rather than squicked out!
Check his body language. Does he passionately kiss you? Hold you tighter? Get hard? Or does he tense up or create distance? Adjust your lines accordingly.
Give feedback requesting his naughty input too. This gets him engaged in the sexy talk.
3) Use Confident Delivery
I can’t emphasize this enough – WHAT you say is not nearly as important as HOW you deliver it!
You must use confident body language (hold eye contact, lean in close), sexy tonal variation (go soft and gentle or loud/aggressive alternatively) and teasing pacing with strategic pauses.
If you can deliver your lines with confidence, even light lines can sound great. But even dirty talk doesn’t work if you look nervous or weird. You can improve your skills by practicing out loud.
Follow these guidelines during your first attempts at talking dirty to ensure fantastic success!
Chapter 3: 100 Dirty Things You Can Say In Every Situation
Now that you know how to deliver dirty talk confidently, let’s get to the fun stuff!
Here are 81 tantalizing dirty talk phrases organized by different situations…are you ready to drive him WILD?
I. Dirty Talk for the Bedroom – Sensual
Bust out these tamer, sensual lines when having intimate, passionate lovemaking. The focus is on romance and tenderness over raunch factor:
- I love you
- You make me feel amazing baby
- That feels so good
- I want you so bad
- I love your body
- Tonight is all about you
- You like that baby?
- Mmm you taste so good
- Yes!
- I feel tiny in your arms
- I can’t believe I met you
- Please please please
Get creative combining intimate emotional declarations with sexy descriptions of what you’re enjoying. This style is perfect for anniversaries, valentine’s day or showing appreciation!
II. Dirty Talk for the Bedroom – Filthy
Once you’ve built the foundation, now it’s time for the spicy, XXX-rated stuff! Bust out these nasty, freaky lines when you want rough, animalistic sex:
- Fuck me hard
- I want to be your fuck slut
- Holy shit I’m cumming
- Grab my hair and fuck me like a dog
- I want to feel your cum all over my face
- I’m your personal pornstar
- Pound me harder daddy
- Stick your fingers in my mouth
- You like watching me touch myself?
- Spank my ass harder
- I’m gonna ride you till you scream
- My pussy is dripping thinking about your cock
Don’t be afraid to get graphic with your descriptions! Paint mental images of exactly what you want done to your body. Command him to go harder, use filthy names and vividly narrate both your sexy deeds.
III. Dirty Talk for Public Places
Ramp up the sexual tension to nuclear levels by whispering naughty things when you’re out together unable to act (yet!). Tease him mercilessly getting him revved for later.
Say these lines softly into his ear when you’re in public:
- I wish we were home right now so I could do terrible things to you
- I really want to rip your clothes off right now
- If we weren’t at this dinner party, I’d sneak under the table and suck you off
- Going to the gym with you was a bad idea. Seeing you sweaty makes me just want to fuck you
- You know I’m not wearing any underwear right now?
- I’m so horny being around these people when all I can think about is sitting on your cock
- Don’t look at me like that! You’re getting me wet and we have to socialize
- I love that shirt on you. Can’t wait to tear it off later
- It’s so naughty grabbing my ass when there’s people around
Vividly describe what sexual acts you WISH you could do to him right then. Or tease him about the dirty things you’ll do later when you’re alone. Watch him squirm trying to maintain composure!
IV. Dirty Talk for When You Have Privacy
You have tons of flexibility when you have privacy and minutes/hours for foreplay. Rev up the dirty talk for maximum heat.
Some example lines for escalating sexual tension when you’re alone together:
- Do you know how wet I am right now imagining you naked?
- Would it be rude if I started sucking your amazing cock right now?
- Now that we’re alone again, I desperately need to feel you pounding my tight pussy
- I keep fantasizing about riding your hard dick all night long
- Tell me all the naughty things you want to do to me, baby
- God I’m so fucking horny for you. I need you inside me so bad
- Thinking about fucking has me dripping wet. Want to touch and find out?
Visualize clearly the sexual acts you want to do with that person. Tell him to touch your body in bad ways. You can get him to talk about HIS dirty fantasies or ask him sexy questions to get him thinking.
V. Dirty Text Messages to Send Him
Even when apart, you can keep your man hooked, thinking about you and craving sex using naughty messaging. Send spicy texts, emails, DMs or snaps:
- I need your hard cock so fucking bad right now. When are you coming over?
- Why aren’t you here with me baby? My pussy is aching and so wet imagining you naked
- I had the wildest dream last night we had the hottest roughest sex. I woke up so horny and needing you!
- I went shopping today and got a sexy new pair of crotchless red lace panties…want to see them later? 😉
- I can’t stop thinking about sucking your big hard dick and swallowing your load
- I’m touching myself imagining it’s your fingers instead of mine…wish you were here!
- Do you want me to wear anything special for you tonight? Tell me exactly what you want!
Vividly describe your horniness, talk about sexy dreams, share your naughtiest desires and fantasies, ask prying questions – sky’s the limit for sexting!
VI. Dirty Talk for Phone Sex
Dirty talk is absolutely crucial when in a long distance relationship! Phone sex is the perfect substitute for the real thing. Even though you’re apart physically, you can still enjoy some sexy fun virtually!
Some piping hot lines that are fantastic for phone sex:
- Hearing your voice is making me so wet. I wish you could feel how hot my pussy is for you right now
- I really need your cock. I want to ride you all night listening to you moan my name
- I love touching my tits and pussy while you talk dirty to me. Don’t you wish it was your mouth instead?
- If I was there I would shove your huge dick down my throat and suck you dry
- Tell me exactly how you want to fuck me baby. Vividly describing tyring x-rated positions we could do
- I’m wearing nothing but lace lingerie right now wishing you were here to rip it off me. How fast could you get here?
Vividly describe your solo masturbation session. Command him to talk dirty back to you too. Ask tantalizing questions about what sexual acts you’d enjoy together if you were actually in the same location!
Chapter 4: Exactly HOW to Talk Dirty With Confidence
I’ve armed you with endless naughty things to say in every situation. But simply having an arsenal of raunchy dirty lines isn’t enough…
…you need to know EXACTLY how to deliver dirty talk smoothly and exude confidence.
Even if you feel awkward or nervous on the inside, you MUST adopt confident body language and voice tone so your man finds it sexy.
Follow these tips to polish your dirty talk delivery:
1. Maintain Strong Eye Contact
Lock eyes with burning desire showing you fully mean every nasty word! It’s normal to feel embarrassed saying explicit things out loud at first.
Power through by strengthening your eye contact game. This makes you seem 1000% more confident and convincing even if you feel sheepish inside.
2. Speak Slowly and Clearly
Resist the urge to rush through your lines mumbling them shyly! This screams discomfort or lack of confidence.
Instead, slow your speech pace right down almost exaggerating every syllable. Over-enunciate every word loudly and clearly. This polished, dominating delivery is way sexier.
3. Use Commanding Body Language
You need to fully inhabit the fantasy and embody a powerful sexual being through your body language. Stand / sit tall projecting strength. Lean in closer getting intimate. Lightly touch / caress him as you talk.
Picture yourself as his sexy domme compelling him to submit to your every naughty whim!
4. Vary Your Vocal Tonality
Monotone dirty talk sounds robotic and weird. For enhanced realism and impact, you must weave in tons of vocal nuance.
Go from gentle, sweet and tender to aggressive, loud and commanding. Alternate slow sensual lines with rapid hardcore outbursts! This tonal variety keeps him guessing excitedly about what you’ll say next!
5. Include Teasing Pauses
Strategic pauses build suspense and anticipation between your lines / paragraphs. Don’t just bombard him with a wall of nonstop chatter!
Insert frequent pauses letting your most graphic dirty phrases sink in for maximum effect. Make eye contact while paused to intensify the erotic tension!
If you closely follow these delivery guidelines, you’ll master confident dirty talk even faster enhancing your feminine allure a hundred times over!
Next let’s explore some advanced dirty talk techniques…
Chapter 5: Advanced Dirty Talk – Techniques & Roleplaying Ideas
Once you’ve nailed the basics, there are SO many sexy directions to take your dirty talk! Fantasies, roleplaying, toys and props open endless creative doors.
Here are some advanced dirty talking ideas:
I. Domination/Submission Roleplay
Power dynamic play is incredibly thrilling! Here’s how to talk dirty if you’re the dominant or submissive partner:
Domme Lines
- I want you naked and kneeling ready to serve me when I return
- You need to earn the privilege of me touching your cock
- Beg to lick my shoes bitch
- Call me Goddess and I MAY let you cum tonight
Really get into the sinister domme mindset commanding him as your slave. Verbally enforce his lowly position catering to your every desire before even thinking of his!
Sub Lines
- I live to serve and obey your every command Master
- My body only exists for your pleasure, use me as your fuck toy
- Please punish me for being so naughty, I need discipline
- Tie me up and ravage me with your hard cock!
Offer your mind and body up for the taking, prepared to be “forced” into all kinds of deviant acts at his whim. Regularly begging for punishment also works great!
This power dynamic role play creates thrilling psychological tension and excitement.
II. Teacher/Student Roleplay
This popular fantasy scenario also enables deliciously naughty talk. You play the stern teacher scolding him, the misbehaving student who desperately wants to improve his “grades”:
Teacher Lines
- Do you really think you deserve a passing grade with such atrocious oral skills?
- I may just have to schedule…extra private tutoring sessions until your performance improves Mr Smith. Many late night hands on lessons in my chambers
- I’ve caught you cheating on tests before. Keep misbehaving and I may have to thoroughly search your body cavities for hidden notes during the next exam!
- Detention again I see. You seem to enjoy lingering after class just to watch me erase the blackboard in my tight skirt don’t you! Maybe I should have you clean more than just the erasers after hours…
Paint imagery of all the salacious study “sessions” required to bring up his grades!
Student Lines
- Please don’t fail me Ms Roberts! I’m begging you, I’ll do anything to get extra credit – anything!
- I just get too distracted staring at your sexy legs in class. Maybe private tutoring would help me concentrate better…
- Getting sent to your office for detention is always the highlight of my day. Are you going to make me…serve hard time again? 😉
- I know seeing your best student fail tests is so frustrating. You deserve a star pupil who logs extra hours pleasuring you to make up for it!
Begging to do “anything” for a passing grade opens up countless naughty possibilities!
As you explore roleplaying ideas, let your imagination run wild dreaming up thinly veiled sexual interpretations of mundane activities!
III. Mimicking Adult Films
Watching porn together can provide tons of dirty talk inspiration! Try playfully narrating your own real time sexual escapades just like the actors:
- “Oh yeah baby take my thick cock deeper down your throat, you’re such a good little slut aren’t you?”
- “Smack that ass harder! This naughty girl loves being spanked like the whore she is!”
- “Fuck yes ride my rock hard dick making those big titties bounce uncontrollably!”
Pay attention to the vocabulary/vocal tone pornstars use and weave that raunchy dialogue into your own intimate moments! This immersive mimicry makes your real sex feelalmost as vividly carnal and raw.
And speaking of watching porn for inspiration…
Chapter 6: Crazy HOT Sex Moves to Try After Talking Dirty!
Once you’ve gotten him all worked up saying naughty things, it’s time for exciting new sex moves!
Don’t just default to boring Missionary again. Channel your inner sex goddess trying something wildly different to culminate the fantasy you’ve built up in his mind!
Here are some crazy hot sex positions to attempt after driving him wild with your new dirty talk skills:
Cowgirl
Fulfill all his female domination fantasies by literally taking the reins and riding him like a pony!
Lower yourself onto his erect cock and start bouncing/grinding your hips. Place his hands on your tits while you control the motion squirting your juices all over him.
Slap your ass commanding him to keep pounding up into your slit harder. This position lets YOU set the pace maximizing your pleasure first!
Doggy Style
The classics are classics for a reason – doggy unleashes our primal mating instincts for intense sex!
Get on all fours arched to really stick your ass out while he pounds you from behind. Spread your cheeks giving him the perfect view of his cock slamming your sopping pussy.
He can grab your hips to intensely ram you while spanking your butt. And the deep penetration angle feels incredible!
For variation, lie flat on your stomach while he takes you from behind for added tightness.
Standing Sex
This one requires some acrobatics, but standing sex is deliciously daring and adventurous!
Face each other standing on the ground, and either bend your knee to allow him to enter, or leap up wrapping your legs around his hips. Pull yourselves close together while he bounces you on his cock.
Having sex half suspended like this with zero stability is tricky but thrilling for more confident couples!
You’ll feel weightless floating in his arms yet totally impaled on his thick shaft. And the excitement of potentially tumbling to the floor only heightens the arousal!
Sex Swing Positions
For the most acrobatic airborne sex, install a sex swing in your bedroom! This contraption fully supports your weight using straps letting you safely attempt endless aerial sex stunts.
Once securely suspended in the swing, he can spin you, flip you upside down, raise or lower your height for oral pleasures, tweak bondage positions you’d never reach otherwise – the possibilities are endless!
Glide weightlessly through the air while skewered on his meat taking dirty talk to dizzying new dimensions…literally!
Don’t be afraid to get creative experimenting with exciting new sex positions to act out the fantasies you’ve stirred up with tantalizing dirty talk!
Now let’s recap everything we’ve covered to ensure you fully absorb these valuable dirty talk lessons!
Chapter 7: Conclusion – Recap & Final Thoughts
If you’ve made it this far reading, congratulations! You now possess life-changing knowledge and tools for enhancing intimacy and connection in your relationship to titillating new heights!
Let’s recap everything you’ve learned:
- The immense benefits of dirty talk for better sex
- Key ground rules so dirty talk succeeds
- 81 different dirty things to say in every situation
- Exactly how to deliver dirty talk smoothly and confidently
- Advanced dirty talk techniques like roleplaying
- Wild sex positions to try after talking dirty
I want to leave you with this final thought. Life is short – make the intimate moments count!
Talking dirty is your key to unlocking the hidden erotic goddess inside. Stop wasting time with mediocre monotonous sex! Give your man deliciously naughty verbal foreplay followed by the wildest sex of his life.
Don’t shy away from your full sensual potential out of fear or awkwardness. You deserve crazy passionate, earth-shaking sex! It’s time to embrace your inner sex kitten!
The ultimate destination is reaching a point where dirty talk flows automatically in the heat of the moment not even needing to think. When filthy phrases effortlessly pour out from that primal place of sexual abandon…that’s when the real magic happens!
But you’ll never get there without starting your dirty talk journey, which means beginning practicing now!
So what are you waiting for…let’s sizzle baby! 😉