Even the most passionate relationships can fall into ruts where things start to feel routine. When the excitement and thrill begin to fade, it’s important to find ways to revive the spark. One fun way to spice things up in the bedroom is by playing a sexy game of dirty truth or dare.
In this post, I’ll provide 100 + dirty truth-or-dare question ideas to inject some naughty fun into your sex life. But before we get to the questions, here are a few important tips:
- The Purpose is Fun, Not Extreme Behavior The point here is not necessarily to get as crazy or wild as possible. If you’re looking for extreme dares, check out these fun sex ideas. Rather, it’s about bringing some lighthearted excitement back into your relationship. Only use the questions you feel comfortable with.
- Create Your Own Questions Too Don’t just rely on these examples. Come up with some personalized questions that apply specifically to your relationship. This guide on how to talk dirty can help.
- Play with Other Couples (Optional) You can play dirty truth or dare with just the two of you. Or, if you want to get more adventurous, try playing with other couples.
- It’s One of Many Ways to Keep Things Fresh Dirty truth or Dare is just one of many options to keep your sex life vibrant. These sex games for couples can help too.
- Don’t Forget the Other Aspects of Your Relationship While this dirty truth or dare game can be exciting, don’t neglect the other important pieces of your relationship.
Now let’s get into the fun stuff: 68 dirty truth questions and 44 naughty dares!
68 Dirty Truth Questions
Here are some juicy truth questions to reveal your deepest secrets and fantasies:
- Have you ever kissed more than 1 member of the same family?
- Have you ever regretted having sex with someone immediately afterwards?
- Have you ever had sex with someone before you had even kissed them?
- Would you ever have a threesome with 2 guys & just 1 girl? What about a threesome with 2 girls & 1 guy?
- Who is the person that you’ve been most attracted to in your entire life?
- Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone that you’d never want to date?
- When is the last time you cheated on someone?
- When is the last time you watched porn?
- Tell me a true sex story that you have never shared with someone before.
- When is the last time you masturbated?
- Have you ever swallowed your partner’s ejaculate?
- If you could change genders for just one day, what’s the first thing that you’d do?
- What’s the sexiest item of clothing you own?
- What’s the furthest you’ve ever gone with someone the first time you met them?
- When’s the last time you’ve skinny dipped?
- What’s the dirtiest dream that you’ve ever had?
- Have you ever had a homosexual experience?
- If you could add 4 inches to your penis or 4 inches to your height, what would you choose?
- What turns you on the most in someone of the opposite sex?
- If you could only choose 2 things for me to wear, what would they be?
- Would you prefer to see me in hot pants or a short skirt?
- When was the last time you kissed someone?
- Who do you think about during sex other than me?
- When is the last time you had a hard on?
- Have you ever dominated someone?
- Have you ever been submissive for someone in the bedroom?
- Do you own any sex toys?
- Have you ever had sex in public? Do you want to try?
- Tell me about a really embarrassing sex story involving you.
- Have you ever worn clothing of the opposite sex?
- What age were you when you first masturbated?
- Have you ever refused to go down on a girl/guy? Why? (How to eat pussy)
- Would you ever consider making a porno?
- Have you ever tried anal? (Anal sex tips)
- Have you ever hired a prostitute?
- What would you do if you found out your partner used to be a prostitute?
- Guys: Do you ever wish you had a bigger penis? Women: Do you ever wish you had bigger breasts?
- If you had to choose between fake or tiny natural breasts, what would you go with? Why?
- What sexual role play have you done? Examples: boss/secretary, prisoner/guard, firefighter/damsel in distress?
- Guys: Would you become a male prostitute if women paid?
- What’s the most orgasms you’ve had in one day?
- If your fantasy girl/guy said they’d only sleep with you if you snowballed, would you do it?
- What’s the longest you’ve gone without masturbating?
- Has your partner ever laughed at you during sex?
- If you had to pick a partner with an amazing body but bad face or an ugly body with a great face, which would you choose?
- Guys: If a girl said she’d try anal if you tried strapon first, what would you say?
- Have you ever been completely rejected by someone?
- What porn do you love/hate and why?
- Is there someone unattractive that you find hot?
- Is there someone hot that you find ugly?
- What’s the biggest age gap with someone you’ve kissed/slept with/dated?
- What was your quickest orgasm ever? (orgasm Guides)
- Have you ever rejected a partner’s sexual suggestion? What was it?
- If you knew you only had a short time left to live, would you confess love to your crush?
- What is the biggest penis you have ever seen in real life?
- What’s the most satisfying orgasm you’ve ever had?
- Guys: Would you choose a girl much shorter or much taller?
- Women: Would you choose a guy much shorter or much taller?
- Describe the last erotica you read.
- What body part is most important for sexual satisfaction?
- What’s the sluttiest thing you’ve ever done? (KInky Sex ideas)
- When have you felt the horniest?
- What weird thing turns you on?
- Tell us about the best sex you ever had.
- Who would you choose for a threesome?
- Tell 2 lies and 1 truth about your sex life.
- What’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?
- Where do you fantasize about having sex?
44 Naughty Dares
Now here are some hot and heavy dares to really turn up the heat:
- Show everyone your favourite porn site.
- Demonstrate your favourite sex position.
- Give your partner a hickey.
- Teach your kinkiest bedroom technique.
- Recreate your sex sounds.
- Show oral skills on a banana.
- Kiss and lick your partner’s feet (2 mins).
- Bend over your partner’s knee for 10 spanks.
- Bend partner over for 20 spanks.
- Kiss partner head to toe.
- Pull partner by hair into chest/crotch.
- Twerk for partner/group.
- Swap clothes with your partner for 10 minutes.
- Race to orgasm.
- Kiss with candy in mouths.
- Partner uses toy next sex session.
- Go commando 24 hours.
- Guys: Finger then taste. Women: Taste precum.
- Take the shot from the belly button.
- Pass candy mouth-to-mouth.
- Reenact a weird sex moment.
- Turn your partner on without touching.
- Perform anilingus on the partner.
- Give partner oral during activity.
- Feed partner fruit with body.
- Strip partner without hands.
- Dry hump to orgasm.
- Wear a butt plug all day.
- Snowball after blow job.
- No masturbating 1 month.
- Striptease for partner.
- Suck your partner’s nipples. (Nipple play)
- Oral alphabet on genitals.
- Hands down pants next 5/10/20 mins.
- Face sitting.
- Lick whipped cream off the body.
- Masturbate in front of group.
- Blindfolded genital identification.
- Stay naked 30 minutes.
- Orgasm using just lips.
- Shower together.
- Send naked Snapchat.
- Direct 2 people to make out/fondle.
- Reveal your ultimate sexual fantasy.
I hope you enjoyed these dirty truth or dare ideas for bringing some naughty excitement into your sex life! Let me know which were your favourites or any other questions you think would be fun.
Now let’s change gears a bit and talk about how women can achieve deeper sexual pleasure and satisfaction…
Wrap Up
I hope you discovered some new ideas for spicing things up from those dirty truth or dare questions! And remember, bringing that passion back into your sex life often starts with honest, open communication with your partner.
If you have trouble climaxing or want to experience new heights of sexual pleasure, know that mindblowing orgasms are within your reach. Be willing to try something new, tune into your body, and embrace sexual discovery.
Let me know if you have any other tips for keeping intimacy exciting and satisfying over the long-haul!