Flogging is a type of corporal punishment that involves striking someone with a whip or a rod. It has historically been used as a form of punishment for crimes, but it can also be used in a consensual manner between two people. If you’re interested in exploring flogging, it’s important to understand the basics and the proper techniques.
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Before You Begin
Before you begin any type of flogging scene, it’s important to make sure that you and your partner are both comfortable with the activity. Talk about your boundaries, limits, and any risks involved.
It’s also important to make sure that you have the right safety equipment, including gloves, a flogger, and a safe word.
Choosing a Flogger
When it comes to choosing a flogger, there are several factors to consider. The material of the flogger, the size, the weight, and the texture will all affect the sensations you experience.
Leather and suede are the most common materials used for floggers, but you can also find them in other materials such as rubber and nylon
Preparing the Scene
Once you’ve chosen a flogger and discussed boundaries with your partner, it’s time to set the scene. Choose a comfortable surface for your partner to lie on, such as a bed or a rug. Make sure You have plenty of pillows, blankets, and other cushions to make the experience as comfortable as possible.
Basic Flogging Techniques
When it comes to flogging, there are a few basic techniques to keep in mind:
- Striking: This is the most basic technique of flogging. Use a steady, rhythmic motion to strike your partner with the flogger. Start light and gradually increase the intensity as you move around the body. Make sure to pay attention to your partner’s reactions and use a safe word if necessary.
- Cupping: This technique involves using the flogger to gently cup your partner’s body. This can be used to provide a soothing massage or to tease and build anticipation
- Flickering: Flickering involves using quick, light strokes with the flogger to create a ticklish sensation. This can be used to build up arousal or to create an overall feeling of pleasure
- Wrapping: wrap the flogger around your partner’s body and create a more intense sensation. This technique is best used in combination with other techniques to create a more intense experience
- Thudding: A more intense technique that involves using large, heavy strokes with the flogger to create a more intense sensation. This technique should only be used with a more experienced partner and should be done slowly so as not to cause any injury.
- Spanking: Spanking is a technique that involves striking your partner’s body with the flat of the flogger. This can be used to create a more intense sensation or to administer punishment
- Wristing: Wristing is a technique that involves wrapping the flogger around your partner’s wrists and using it to control their movements this technique can be used to create a more immersive experience or to administer punishment.
- Aim and Accuracy: Practice your aim and accuracy to ensure you hit your intended target areas. This skill not only prevents accidental injury but also allows you to create specific sensations and experiences for your partner. Consider practising on a pillow or other inanimate object before flogging a person.
Aftercare
After the scene is over, it’s important to take care of your partner. Make sure to provide them with plenty of physical and emotional support. Offer them a blanket and something to drink, and don’t forget to cuddle and talk about your experience.
Flogging FAQ
Is flogging safe?
Flogging can be a safe activity, as long as both partners are fully aware of the risks involved and have established clear boundaries. Make sure to use the proper safety equipment and take things slowly to ensure a safe experience
What type of flogger should I use?
The type of flogger you use will depend on the type of sensation you want to create. Leather and suede are the most common materials used for floggers, but you can also find them in other materials such as rubber and nylon
What should I do after a flogging scene?
After the scene is over, it’s important to provide your partner with physical and emotional aftercare. Offer them a blanket and something to drink, and talk about your experience.
How do I know if my partner is enjoying it?
Pay attention to your partner’s reactions and use a safe word if they need to take a break. Make sure to talk to your partner about boundaries and their level of comfort with the activity.
It can be an exciting and intense experience, but it’s important to know the basics and stay safe. Make sure to talk to your partner about boundaries and safety equipment, choose the right flogger, and provide plenty of aftercare. With the right preparation and techniques, you can both enjoy a safe and pleasurable flogging scene
