A list of ideas and activities for dominant women to use on their submissive male partners… to tease, humiliate, discipline, punish, and torment him.
Ways to Tease Him
- Tease Your slave until he agrees to “Do Anything to Please You”
- Make him strip off his clothes while You remain dressed.
- Get him to bow down before You and kiss Your feet.
- Ask him to refer to you as “Mistress”
- Make him beg to kiss Your ass. Make him kiss Your ass.
- Tie his hands and command him to strip you naked using his mouth or teeth.
- Never, ever permit him to touch his cock or engage in masturbation.
- Hands behind back tied with a tie. While you read or watch TV, have him kneel in front of you with his legs extended, nudging his balls or penis from time to time with Your shoes.
- Either tell him to stand up straight or don’t let him have a hard-on… If he fails, punish him either way!
- Use a piece of sturdy string (such as kite string), tie a slip noose to the end, and tighten it around the penis’ head. Then, do as you please with the string: pull it, shake it, lead him, etc.
- Show Your slave your crotch and make him smell it, but don’t let him touch it without your consent.
- Tie Your slave to the bed with his wings spread wide and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a huge hard-on, but once he does, don’t let him cum; only touch it when he needs a little more encouragement.
- Wear your favourite underwear and tease him with Your Beauty.
- Use Your fingernails to scratch him.
- Make him laugh. Squeeze his nipples.
- Find out what he would do to get the right to kiss your nipple by sitting on his chest. Make him beg as you allow him to come close to kissing it.
- Take a break, cover his face with some soiled pyjamas, and leave the room for a while. This will give him time to consider other possible actions.
- Squat over his face and force him to taste Your panties with his tongue. More commitments
- Blindfold him and force him to lick You repeatedly. Take a break, come back, and repeat the process.
- Sit on his face or rub his face against Your pussy, but gag him with your panties or a gag so he can’t lick You.
- -If you want him to smell your underwear or kiss your ass, tie his balls to something behind him so he has to pull on them. cling to the edge of reach.
- Masturbate in his presence. Use a vibrator or a dildo.
- Put the dildo base in his mouth and make him eat it to satisfy You. Make sure your ass cheeks are pressed up against his nose. He will enjoy being Your little brown noser.
- Make him thoroughly lick the dildo.
- Tie him to the bed and fasten his hands to his penis, but refrain from allowing him to impose severe penalties for disobedience.
- Hang your soiled underwear over his head so he can smell you.
- Make him wear a cat collar or a watch strap as a cock ring.
Ways to Humiliate Him
- Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid.
- Make him do housework naked or dressed in women’s clothes.
- Have him pamper You, have him:
- give You a foot/back/full body massage
- give You a pedicure/manicure,
- Attach a leash to his balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that.
- Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.
- Ride him around as Your pony boy…spurs? a riding crop?
- Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him. (don’t forget the fuck-me red lipstick!)
- Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
- Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don’t let him punish him if he does.
- Make him screw himself with a dildo.
- Make him earn his rewards; for example:
- Allow him to kiss Your ass after the dishes are done.
- paint Your fingers/toe nails.
- bathe You/shave your legs.
- cook and serve You a nice dinner.
- Make him hand wash Your panties and lingerie.
- Make him polish Your shoes with his tongue.
- Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash, like a dog.
1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of Yours. 5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes You cum 5 times. Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to make You cum. - If You think he’s earned an orgasm, make him cum on Your feet or Your ass and then make him lick You clean.
- When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive.
- Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until You give him permission. When You give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all. (keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as You want)
- If he’s horny and bothering You, You may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner… 3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time.
- Lock a padlock on his balls.
- Give him a golden shower.
- Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him. Punish him if You don’t think it’s good enough.
- Make him post it to the net (and send it to me to add to the list)
Ways to Discipline and Punish and Torment Him
- He should be spanked or whipped. Wooden spoon, hairbrush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, and cat-o-nine tails are among the items mentioned.
- Tie him up in a position that is uncomfortable.
- Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them.
- Hogtied. (wrists and ankles tied together) Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
- Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothesline, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs.
- Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage.
- Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
- Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
- Double up on his domestic chores, and make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels.
- Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
Have him lick You clean after you pee. - Apply icy-hot or Ben-gay to his penis and nipples.
- Pour candle wax all over him.
- Force him to engage in physical activity (yoga, jumping jacks, leg spreads, etc.).
- Shout insults at him in public take him to buy underwear or pants
